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Red Flags People Ignore
Red flags people ignore until they're too late.
In brief
Red flags people ignore until they're too late. People ignore red flags like lack of accountability and inability to apologize that lead to toxic relationships. Originally reported by BuzzFeed.
Red flags people ignore
People often ignore red flags like lack of accountability and inability to apologize that lead to toxic relationships.
“Ironically, when a person agrees with everything. They probably suppress their thoughts. It makes things messy down the road.”
Lack of accountability
Lack of accountability is a red flag people often ignore until it's too late.
“Lack of accountability.”
Inability to apologize
A complete inability to apologize makes relationships exhausting as they avoid saying 'I'm sorry'.
“A complete inability to apologize. I had an ex-friend like this, and it was actually incredible the hoops she would jump through to avoid just saying, 'I’m sorry.' Major things, minor things, it did not matter. Nothing was ever her fault.”
Being late to events
Being late to events you like but not others shows inconsistent behavior that worsens over time.
“Being late to events that you like, but they don't. I married it. When we'd visit my family, he was late getting ready and drove slowly. When we'd visit his family, we'd get there early, he'd drive fast, and we'd stay late. It doesn't get better.”
Lovebombing
Lovebombing feels great at first but leads to very toxic relationship dynamics.
“Lovebombing. It feels great at first, but often leads to very toxic relationship dynamics.”
Charm and charisma
Charm and charisma hide destructive character flaws that become apparent when you look deeper.
“Charm and charisma hide a multitude of destructive character flaws. Don't believe it until you see deeper.”
What happens next
Ignoring red flags leads to toxic relationships that become harder to fix over time.
“People who are overly positive to the point of ignoring their negative or unhappy feelings about themselves and other people.”
In short
People ignore red flags like lack of accountability and inability to apologize that lead to toxic relationships.
