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Finding your voice at midlife
NPR correspondent Allison Aubrey explores how Gen X can reignite creativity and purpose in their next chapter.
In brief
NPR correspondent Allison Aubrey explores how Gen X can reignite creativity and purpose in their next chapter. Allison Aubrey's book excerpt shows how midlife creativity can unlock purpose and joy for Gen X women through bold pursuits and community. Originally reported by CBS News.
A sabbatical search for purpose
NPR health correspondent Allison Aubrey took a sabbatical from her job as a Gen X woman juggling kids and career.
Creativity as a bridge
One way to start a midlife reset is to make time to be creative.Creativity lets us express what's inside of us, and it can be a bridge to connection.
A portrait that sparked curiosity
During a bluebell hike along the Potomac River, photographer Amy Wilton showed Aubrey a portrait of a woman singing onstage in Maine. The image captured transcendence, prompting Aubrey to learn more about the singer's story.
Kristi's fiftieth birthday awakening
Kristi Kalajian works as a physician assistant in Camden, Maine, but at her fiftieth birthday, a long-dormant urge resurfaced.She had always loved R and B and wanted to sing.
A home concert success
Kristi invited people to a friend's home with a grand piano for her first concert.The performance was a runaway success.
A vision board turns cynicism around
At a New Year's celebration, Kristi was asked to make a vision board, something she had always considered hokey.
The band comes together
Within a month of making her vision board, a local musician approached Kristi asking if she wanted to join a band.The musician's friend was looking for a singer with a smoky voice.
Singing Lizzo at any age
When Kristi stepped up to sing lead on her band's rendition of Lizzo's two thousand twenty hit song About Damn Time, Aubrey saw her third-turn anthem.
“I feel complete.”
The third turn formula
According to Dr.Jeremy Nobel, a primary care doctor and poet, the formula for the third turn is simple: Be curious.Make things.Have conversations.As parenting and workloads lighten, creative spirits can come out to play.
“Be curious. Make things. Have conversations.”
Try one creative pursuit
There are many creative pursuits: painting, pottery, poetry, music, theater, culinary arts, and gardening, which Nobel calls the slowest form of performance art.Just pick one with no pressure.
Reconnect with childhood creativity
Think back to when you found joy in making something, singing, dancing, or creating stories as a child.
Creativity across continents
Alison Richards and three friends from England use a WhatsApp group to share creative prompts and maintain friendship across continents.
The bottom line
Allison Aubrey's book excerpt shows how midlife creativity can unlock purpose and joy for Gen X women through bold pursuits and community.


