Why can't we just behave? Rudeness is everywhere now

From shirtless bikers in banks to screaming strangers, basic manners have vanished from American life.

Sep 16, 2026

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Why can't we just behave? Rudeness is everywhere now

From shirtless bikers in banks to screaming strangers, basic manners have vanished from American life.

In brief

From shirtless bikers in banks to screaming strangers, basic manners have vanished from American life. Common courtesy and basic manners have largely disappeared from everyday American interactions, leaving a society where rudeness has become the norm. Originally reported by New York Post.

Manners have disappeared

Basic courtesies like napkins, helping others, and simple politeness are gone. Kids bring weapons to kindergarten instead of learning materials.

“We once had a book about manners. Now no book. Now no manners.”

Shirtless bikers, wrong-way cyclists

A shirtless man on a bike enters the Chase Bank on East 10th Street and Second Avenue.

People ride bikes the wrong way and slam into pedestrians without apology. A shirtless man casually rides into a Chase Bank.

Politeness gets you screamed at

A respected attorney stepped back to let a young woman enter an elevator first. She screamed at him, calling him stupid and an antique.

“What're you, stupid? An antique? We're same as you, good as you. Do same jobs as you.”

Emily Post is ancient history

The 1922 etiquette guide is now only useful for propping up furniture. Nobody knows how to behave in public anymore.

Experts blame the pandemic

Experts blame the pandemic

Specialists say the decline started after COVID-19. But the connection between a health crisis and abandoning basic decency remains unclear.

America is falling apart

Empty churches, closed schools, broken trains, contaminated food, and crumbling infrastructure. The greatest nation is manufacturing liars and losers.

“All we're manufacturing are liars and losers.”

The bottom line

Common courtesy and basic manners have largely disappeared from everyday American interactions, leaving a society where rudeness has become the norm.

Read the original on New York Post

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