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My child was stillborn. 12 years later, I'm happy
A mother's stillbirth 12 years ago reshaped her life for the better.
In brief
A mother's stillbirth 12 years ago reshaped her life for the better. A mother who lost her child at 40 weeks now values her two children and career more than having another child. Originally reported by Newsweek.
The stillbirth moment
I heard my baby had no heartbeat at 40 weeks pregnant.
“Your baby has no heartbeat.”
Hospital chaos
My town's labor unit was full; we waited hours for space.
“The doctor will be in soon.”
The delivery
Twelve hours later, I delivered a dead child.
“We are going on a journey together.”
Grief impact
My husband and I split three years after my baby died.
“Why can't you say his name?”
Healing journey
I found community support and therapy to heal after stillbirth.
“I was part of a club I never knew existed.”
Life choices
I chose to focus on my two children and career instead of another child.
“I'm thankful I didn't have custody calendars.”
Current life
My kids are grown; I'm ready for my next journey without them.
“I'm glad I won't have to wait for another child.”
The lesson
Losing a child made me appreciate my two children and career more.
“I'm thankful I didn't have to wrangle a 7-year-old.”
The main idea
A mother who lost her child at 40 weeks now values her two children and career more than having another child.
