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Chronic Illness: Not Seeking Inspiration
A 35-year-old with Crohn's disease rejects being seen as inspirational despite living with a chronic illness.
In brief
A 35-year-old with Crohn's disease rejects being seen as inspirational despite living with a chronic illness. Lindsay Barnes, 35, with Crohn's disease, chooses privacy over sharing her illness as inspiration. Originally reported by Popsugar.
Diagnosis in Early 20s
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Lindsay Barnes was diagnosed with Crohn's disease at age 20, experiencing bathroom visits 10 to 15 times daily.
Dancer to Illness
Before Crohn's, Barnes was a dancer who loved performing and expressing herself through the arts.
Embarrassment of Symptoms
Barnes felt embarrassed by bathroom frequency, recalling 'Sex and the City' episodes about bathroom use.
Privacy Over Inspiration
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Barnes chose not to share her Crohn's diagnosis publicly to avoid being seen as inspirational.
Dating Challenges
Crohn's disease complicates dating with concerns about bathroom access and unexpected cancellations.
No Silver Linings
Barnes doesn't feel strong or brave and prefers not to find lessons in her illness.
Personal Identity
Barnes identifies as a daughter, sister, and friend with life beyond her Crohn's diagnosis.
What to remember
Lindsay Barnes, 35, with Crohn's disease, chooses privacy over sharing her illness as inspiration.
