From Psychologies · Ava Skoupsky · · 30s
Florence Servan-Schreiber on lasting friendships
Why some friendships last decades while others fade.
In brief
Why some friendships last decades while others fade. Florence Servan-Schreiber says lasting friendships require awareness of others' needs and curiosity. Originally reported by Psychologies.
What makes friendships last
Florence Servan-Schreiber says lasting friendships require awareness of others' needs and curiosity.
“Cela se traduit par le fait de s'intéresser authentiquement à ce que fait l'autre et d'être capable d'initier les choses sans imaginer de réciprocité systématique.”
Key elements for strong bonds
Curiosity and active listening help build deeper connections with friends.
“On adore demander de l'aide car on se sent exister aux yeux de l'autre.”
Rituals strengthen friendships
Weekly dinners or shared activities deepen bonds over time.
“Plus on s'expose à nos amis, plus on s'y attache.”
Impact on health
Strong social ties reduce cancer mortality risk by 66% for women.
“Les femmes isolées socialement avant le diagnostic présentaient un risque accru de 66 % de mortalité toutes causes confondues.”
The takeaway
Florence Servan-Schreiber says lasting friendships require awareness of others' needs and curiosity.
