From Psychologies · Ava Skoupsky · · 1m 10s
Je dis ça, je dis rien: What It Really Means
How a communication expert reveals the hidden message behind 'Je dis ça, je dis rien'.
In brief
How a communication expert reveals the hidden message behind 'Je dis ça, je dis rien'. The phrase 'Je dis ça, je dis rien' is used to subtly convey advice without taking full responsibility, according to communication expert Emmanuel Chila. Originally reported by Psychologies.
What 'Je dis ça, je dis rien' really means
This phrase is often used passively to avoid taking full responsibility for advice while still conveying a message.
“Elle peut pourtant avoir un sens complètement différent de celui que l'on imagine”
Why it's used
It helps minimize the speaker's involvement, create distance, and avoid direct criticism without taking full ownership.
“C'est une manière de ne pas complètement assumer ses propos et de se dédouaner du fait d'être le sachant et l'expert sur un sujet”
Hidden message

The phrase can also be used ironically to give weight to a message while leaving the choice of interpretation to the listener.
“On sait très bien ce que l'on raconte, mais on laisse le choix à la personne de prendre l'information ou pas”
Risks of using it
It can cause misunderstandings depending on context and relationship, being perceived as disinterest or a lack of commitment.
“Lorsque l'on connaît la personne et que l'on est en confiance, on peut prendre la remarque avec humour”
When it works
It's useful for giving subtle advice or opinions without authority when the listener is trusted and the relationship is established.
“Lorsque l'on souhaite donner un coup de pouce ou émettre un avis sans faire preuve d'autorité”
What happens next
Using this phrase requires careful consideration of context and relationship to avoid misunderstandings and ensure the intended message is received.
The essence
The phrase 'Je dis ça, je dis rien' is used to subtly convey advice without taking full responsibility, according to communication expert Emmanuel Chila.





