From Psychologies · Andréa Lepage · · 1m
Solo Maxxing: The Deep Desire for Independence
More people choose life without partners, driven by a deeper yearning for independence.
In brief
More people choose life without partners, driven by a deeper yearning for independence. Increasing numbers of young adults prefer solo living for financial savings, mental peace, and personal growth, but this trend carries risks if motivated by avoidance. Originally reported by Psychologies.
Quick answers
- What is solo-maxxing?
- Solo-maxxing means proudly choosing to be single and optimizing life without partners.
- What is the key takeaway from Solo Maxxing: The Deep Desire for Independence?
- Increasing numbers of young adults prefer solo living for financial savings, mental peace, and personal growth, but this trend carries risks if motivated by avoidance.
What is solo-maxxing?
Solo-maxxing means proudly choosing to be single and optimizing life without partners.
“Omnipresent on social media, especially among Gen Z and Millennials.”
Why solo-maxxing grows
86% of adults aged 18-24 and 42% of those 25-39 are single, according to a 2025 Pew Research Center survey.
“In 1990, only 29% of people aged 25-54 were single.”
Financial savings

Solo living potentially increases spending through savings, as noted by Bruce Y. Lee.
“One of the advantages of solitude is the potential increase in spending due to savings.”
Mental peace
Nearly half of adults aged 18-34 report greater serenity being single than in a relationship.
“A toxic relationship can be more disruptive than the absence of a relationship.”
Personal growth
Solo living allows energy to focus on friendships, family, career, and sports, building independence.
“Being single teaches you to handle things alone, making you more competent.”
Risks of avoidance
Solo-maxxing can be risky if motivated by avoidance of relationship highs and lows.
“Self-reliance can create a false sense of security, preventing self-reflection.”
The bottom line
Increasing numbers of young adults prefer solo living for financial savings, mental peace, and personal growth, but this trend carries risks if motivated by avoidance.



