From Slate Magazine · Michelle Herman · · 1m 10s
Birth Control Failure Leads to Family Crisis
A woman discovers her partner's hidden son after failed birth control, forcing a difficult choice about her marriage and stepson.
In brief
A woman discovers her partner's hidden son after failed birth control, forcing a difficult choice about her marriage and stepson. A woman must decide whether to leave her husband to protect her daughter from her stepson's harmful behavior. Originally reported by Slate Magazine.
Birth Control Failure
Brian and I dated less than a year when my birth control failed.
Hidden Son Revealed
I found out eight months pregnant with Natalie that Brian had a son Zack living with his mother in another state.
Zack's Behavior
Zack is 13, yells, swears, destroys objects, has physically tussled with Brian, and makes inappropriate comments about girls.
Sarah's Legal Issues
Sarah, Zack's ex-girlfriend, got arrested for assaulting officers and has outstanding warrants.
Current Strain
Brian is ineffective at managing Zack's behavior, and I am miserable living with my stepson.
Marriage Risk
If I leave Brian, Natalie might live half the time with Zack without me, risking her safety.
Next Steps
I should tell Brian I don’t want Natalie to live with Zack and discuss moving out without divorce.
What matters most
A woman must decide whether to leave her husband to protect her daughter from her stepson's harmful behavior.
