From Slate Magazine · Jessica Stoya · · 1m 20s
Boyfriend's Sex Howl
Boyfriend's sex howl: a low moan during orgasm sounds like a dog's bark.
In brief
Boyfriend's sex howl: a low moan during orgasm sounds like a dog's bark. Boyfriend makes a dog-like howl during orgasm, unaware of the sound he produces. Originally reported by Slate Magazine.
Boyfriend's Sex Howl
Boyfriend makes a low, loud moan during orgasm that sounds like a dog's howl.
“He genuinely seems to be unaware he’s doing it”
Sound Unaware
Boyfriend is unaware of the sound he makes during orgasm, which he describes as a dog-like howl.
“He genuinely seems to be unaware he’s doing it”
Relationship Concern
Partner wants to stop the sound but boyfriend seems unaware of the issue.
“I’d really prefer he forgo his little auditory show”
Earplug Risk
Earplugs could cause awkwardness if boyfriend notices them during sex.
“The earplugs are risky, in that he may see one in your ear”
Communication Strategy
Partner should discuss the sound with boyfriend to understand his awareness.
“Look for an opportunity, whether that’s seizing on a passing interest he develops in Wim Hof”
Awareness Levels
Boyfriend may be unaware, know but hope partner doesn’t mention, or do it on purpose.
“Once you have a sense of whether he really has no idea”
Solution Approach
Partner should ask boyfriend if he can stop the sound or reduce its volume.
“you can turn to asking him whether he can stop or work on ways to mitigate”
Alternative Solution
Music during sex can mask the sound without causing awkwardness.
“If you really want to side-step the subject, masking noise is what music during sex was made for”
Other Questions
Article also covers other sex advice questions from readers.
“Dear Not So Smart Shopper”
Husband and Wife
Couple wants to buy sex toys but feels overwhelmed by options.
“My husband and I want to expand our horizons in the bedroom to involve more toys”
Immunosuppressed Concern
Man with organ transplant worries about safety during sex with sex worker.
“I am a mid-60s straight male who visited a sex worker for the first time last week”
The bottom line
Boyfriend makes a dog-like howl during orgasm, unaware of the sound he produces.
