From Slate Magazine · Rich Juzwiak · · 50s
Gay Neighbor's Sex Parties: How to Ask Without Being Lame
Gay man asks neighbor for sex party invite without seeming awkward.
In brief
Gay man asks neighbor for sex party invite without seeming awkward. Gay man seeks invitation to neighbor's sex parties while maintaining platonic friendship. Originally reported by Slate Magazine.
Platonic Friend
Gay man lives with neighbor who watches his plants.
Sex Parties
Neighbor hosts occasional sex parties in his apartment.
Direct Ask
Ask neighbor: 'Your parties seem fun; I would love to join you.'
Hedge Strategy
Ask: 'Your parties seem fun; how does one get an invite?'
Consent Matters
Group sex requires clear consent; opt-out is common.
Neighbor's View
Neighbor may see him as platonic friend, not sexual partner.
Next Step
Ask neighbor for invite while maintaining friendly relationship.
The headline
Gay man seeks invitation to neighbor's sex parties while maintaining platonic friendship.
