Hating a 4-Year-Old Nemesis

A parent's struggle to hide their dislike of a chaotic playdate rival.

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Sep 23, 2026

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Hating a 4-Year-Old Nemesis

A parent's struggle to hide their dislike of a chaotic playdate rival.

In brief

A parent's struggle to hide their dislike of a chaotic playdate rival. A parent feels intense dislike for a 4-year-old child who tattles and demands attention, but her friends don't seem bothered. Originally reported by Slate Magazine.

Playdate Chaos

A woman with her hands on her head, looking exasperated.

Three families share Saturday playdates with kids of all ages.

Lori's Presence

Lori, 4, tattles constantly and demands attention.

Parent's Reaction

The parent feels deep frustration when Lori is around.

Friend's Perspective

Friend's Perspective

The parent's son and other kids don't seem bothered by Lori.

Confession Dilemma

The parent considers telling Beth they dislike Lori.

Advice from Nicole

Nicole advises against confessing dislike to Beth.

The big picture

A parent feels intense dislike for a 4-year-old child who tattles and demands attention, but her friends don't seem bothered.

Read the original on Slate Magazine

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