From Slate Magazine · Rich Juzwiak · · 1m 10s
Sexual Assault Advice Column: Choking and Slapping Incident
A college fling ended with choking and slapping, leaving lasting trauma.
In brief
A college fling ended with choking and slapping, leaving lasting trauma. A college student experienced choking and slapping during a sexual encounter, leading to ongoing trauma and a need for counseling. Originally reported by Slate Magazine.
College Fling
Two and a half years ago, during my first year at uni, I had a brief fling that was unhealthy.
Unhealthy Encounter
He started to choke me and slapped me multiple times during the first time we slept together.
Silent Aftermath
I did not say anything or bring it up after the incident, despite previously discussing potential sexual interests months earlier.
Ongoing Trauma
This incident still colors my current sexual encounters and makes me think back to the first time we slept together.
Seeking Help
I feel like I’ve done something wrong and am fearful, but don’t know how to address these feelings.
Expert Advice
It wasn’t your fault that this guy slapped and choked you; your reaction does not make it your fault.
Counseling Needed
You should seek trauma counseling to address the lasting effects of the incident.
The bottom line
A college student experienced choking and slapping during a sexual encounter, leading to ongoing trauma and a need for counseling.
