From Slate Magazine · Rich Juzwiak · · 1m 50s
Squirting and Partner Dynamics
Partner comfort trumps technique for squirting success.
In brief
Partner comfort trumps technique for squirting success. Squirting requires individual anatomy and partner comfort, not specific techniques, to achieve. Originally reported by Slate Magazine.
Squirting Basics
Squirting can be cultivated with time, patience, and muscle control according to sex educator Lola Jean.
“Squirting can be cultivated with "time, patience, and muscle control"”
Not Everyone Can Squirting
Not everyone who thinks they can’t squirt actually can’t and not everyone who tries will be able to.
“Not everyone who thinks they can’t squirt actually can’t and not everyone who tries will be able to”
Partner Comfort Matters
Lola Jean says comfort from a partner is more important than technique for squirting.
“I first squirted with a partner. This was not due to a particular technique my partner used, but because of the comfort they gave me when exploring my body”
Squirting is Not About Men
Squirting has become almost entirely about heterosexual men when it has nothing to do with them.
“Squirting, an act of those with vaginas, has become almost entirely about heterosexual men, when, in fact, it has absolutely nothing to do with them”
Partner Effort vs. Technique
The effort of the would-be squirter matters much more than their partner’s technique.
“The effort of the would-be squirter is going to matter much, much more than that of their partner”
Squirting Requires Individual Effort
Squirting requires individual anatomy and physiology, not partner techniques to achieve.
“Different bodies do different things”
Partner Role in Squirting
If your partner wants to squirt, you can only support their efforts, not force the outcome.
“If you are looking to make someone squirt as a trophy for your ego, you are setting yourself up for disappointment”
Squirting is Personal
Squirting is an individual experience that varies by anatomy and physiology.
“Different bodies do different things”
Partner Comfort is Key
Comfort from a partner is more important than specific techniques for squirting.
“I first squirted with a partner. This was not due to a particular technique my partner used, but because of the comfort they gave me when exploring my body”
Squirting is Not a Performance
Squirting has become a performance for people with vaginas, not a natural outcome.
“Squirting, an act of those with vaginas, has become almost entirely about heterosexual men, when, in fact, it has absolutely nothing to do with them”
Partner Effort is Primary
The effort of the would-be squirter matters more than their partner’s technique.
“The effort of the would-be squirter is going to matter much, much more than that of their partner”
Squirting Requires Individual Effort
Squirting requires individual anatomy and physiology, not partner techniques to achieve.
“Different bodies do different things”
Partner Role in Squirting
If your partner wants to squirt, you can only support their efforts, not force the outcome.
“If you are looking to make someone squirt as a trophy for your ego, you are setting yourself up for disappointment”
Squirting is Personal
Squirting is an individual experience that varies by anatomy and physiology.
“Different bodies do different things”
What to remember
Squirting requires individual anatomy and partner comfort, not specific techniques, to achieve.
