Go Somewhere You Enjoy

Choose a bar or coffee shop you like instead of a singles event you dislike.

Get Your Face Out of Your Phone

Look around and smile at someone to show interest without aggressive eye contact.

Forget Trying to Be Clever

Ask what they’re drinking or comment on what’s happening around you instead of crafting a perfect opening line.

“I don’t think we’ve met, I’m [insert name].”

Make the First Move Yourself

Smile at someone or start a conversation if you’re interested, then leave if they don’t seem interested.

Notice If They’re Enjoying

Ask questions and listen for signs they want to keep talking, like one-word answers or checking their phone.

Stop Replaying Every Word

Don’t overthink conversations; the other person might want to see you again.