From VICE · Ashley Fike · · 40s
Cheaters Hide Affairs in Shared Notes
Cheaters use shared notes to hide affairs without breaking up.
In brief
Cheaters use shared notes to hide affairs without breaking up. Some cheaters hide sexts in shared notes labeled 'Packing List' to avoid confrontation. Originally reported by VICE.
How Cheaters Hide Affairs
Cheaters save flings as 'Pizza Hut' in contacts and hide sexts in shared notes next to grocery lists.
Shared Notes as Secret Hiding Spots
Shared notes labeled 'Packing List' allow secret messaging without using regular texting apps.
Previous Cheating Methods
Cheaters used fake contact names and calculator vault apps to hide affairs in the past.
Why Cheaters Keep Secrets
Couples therapist Esther Perel says infidelity is organized around secrecy and can feel excitingly alive.
“any infidelity is organized around secrecy”
The key point
Some cheaters hide sexts in shared notes labeled 'Packing List' to avoid confrontation.
