Why People Date Narcissists

Science reveals why some people stay with manipulative partners.

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Oct 21, 2026

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Why People Date Narcissists

Science reveals why some people stay with manipulative partners.

In brief

Science reveals why some people stay with manipulative partners. People prefer partners with similar dark traits like narcissism, even when violence is involved. Originally reported by VICE.

Ted Bundy's love letters

People date narcissists despite warning signs because they see them as perfect boyfriends.

University of São Paulo study

Researchers surveyed 400 Brazilian adults to find why people date manipulative partners.

Dark Triad traits

Dark Triad traits

People who score higher in narcissism, manipulation, and psychopathy prefer similar partners.

Hypothetical partner ratings

Kind partners scored nearly 6 on attractiveness scale while violent partners scored 1.5.

The big picture

People prefer partners with similar dark traits like narcissism, even when violence is involved.

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