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Married apart: How some couples redefine marriage
Couples living separately find deeper connection without sacrificing marriage
In brief
Couples living separately find deeper connection without sacrificing marriage Marriage works without sharing a home if couples maintain emotional connection Originally reported by Valleynewslive.
Marriage isn't about address
Gerontologist Sam Cradduck says marriage focuses on shared life, not shared address.
“I think we have to recognize that marriage isn't about sharing an address. It's about sharing a life.”
Not a new concept
Military families have lived apart for years while maintaining healthy marriages.
“Military families have done this for years. It's been around.”
Talk through logistics
Aging expert Amy O'Rourke advises discussing permanence, finances, care needs, and emergencies first.
“Is this going to be permanent? Is it temporary? How are we going to handle the money?”
Connection matters more
Dr. Rhea Rogers says distance doesn't weaken marriage if couples strengthen their bond.
“At the end of the day, you really want to strengthen the bond and it doesn't have to be the same address to do that.”
Plan for connection
Aging-well coach Katherine Ambrose stresses intentional communication and physical connection.
“Communication is key. But also physical connection is very important.”
Benefits of living together
Sharing a home helps couples practice conflict resolution in close proximity.
“I think there's absolutely benefits to being married, living in the same house and learning how to argue well.”
The big picture
Marriage works without sharing a home if couples maintain emotional connection
