# Husband's Jealousy Over Sex Club

> Husband avoids saying if he'd be jealous of wife having sex with another man.
- Title: Husband's Jealousy Over Sex Club · Slate Magazine | Shortify
- Summary: Husband avoids saying if he'd be jealous of wife having sex with another man. Husband's refusal to answer whether he'd be jealous of wife having sex with…
- Keywords: husband, wife, sex club, jealousy, communication, marriage, Husband's, Sex, Club, Slate Magazine
- Source: Slate Magazine — https://slate.com/advice/2026/10/sex-advice-husband-question-jealousy.html?via=rss
- Author: Rich Juzwiak
- Published: 2026-10-21T17:17:34+00:00
- Read time: 1 min
- Topics: husband, wife, sex club, jealousy, communication, marriage
## Husband's Jealousy Question
Husband of 43 years brings up going to a sex club.

> My husband of 43 years constantly brings up going to a "sex club."
## Husband's Unclear Response
Husband cannot answer if he'd be OK with wife having sex with another man.

> He said that he could not answer that question.
## Wife's Concern
Wife feels let down husband didn't say he'd be jealous.

> I feel a bit let down that he did not say it would bother him.
## Husband's Possible Reason
Husband may be avoiding hard feelings by not answering directly.

> He cannot answer the question of whether or not he’d be OK with you having sex with another man because it has not yet happened.
## Communication Issue
Husband's lack of communication makes decisions difficult.

> What exactly does he want? What does he expect to happen if you were to go to this club?
## Next Steps
Wife should clarify limits and expectations before trying sex club.

> You agreed hesitantly, so what are your hard limits? What would be the best-case scenario for you?
## Key takeaway

Husband's refusal to answer whether he'd be jealous of wife having sex with another man suggests poor communication.