# My Ex Wanted Something Dangerous in Bed. She Found Someone Who Would Do It, and It’s Not Pretty > A woman hospitalized after a throat knife wound from her ex's BDSM fantasy. - Title: My Ex Wanted Something Dangerous in Bed. She Found Someone… - Summary: A woman hospitalized after a throat knife wound from her ex's BDSM fantasy. A woman hospitalized with a throat knife wound after her ex tried to fulfill a… - Keywords: knife wound, throat injury, sex fantasy, simulated rape, hospitalization, ex partner, bdsmb injury, Slate Magazine - Source: Slate Magazine — https://slate.com/advice/2026/11/sex-advice-dangerous-kink-injury.html?via=rss - Author: Rich Juzwiak, Jessica Stoya - Published: 2026-11-13T17:00:00+00:00 - Read time: 2 min - Topics: knife wound, throat injury, sex fantasy, simulated rape, hospitalization, ex partner, bdsmb injury ## Ex's Dangerous Fantasy A woman hospitalized after a throat knife wound from her ex's BDSM fantasy involving simulated rape at knifepoint. > She played at being 'raped' at knifepoint ## Ex's Experience He tried the fantasy once and focused on preventing severe cuts, making the experience unpleasant for him. > Care always needs to be taken with BDSM, but when you have a bare Yawara involved, making sure I didn’t cut her in half occupied the overwhelming majority of my attention ## Relationship Outcome They stopped seeing each other sexually after arguing about the dangerous fantasy. > We argued about that, and wound up stop seeing each other sexually ## Current Situation She is hospitalized with a throat knife wound, showing signs of severe injury. > She’s in the hospital for a knife wound on her throat ## Health Status She has no permanent tracheal damage but is at risk of life-threatening injuries. > She said she doesn’t appear to have any permanent tracheal damage ## Ex's Concerns He worries about her extreme risks and wants to warn her about the dangerous sexual practice. > I’m not much more than a casual acquaintance these days, and I’m wondering what I could be doing to warn her about the extreme risks of her lifestyle ## Expert Advice Experts suggest checking her mental state and social relationships to help her feel more important than the dangerous practice. > I’d check in on her general mental state. How’s she feeling about life? How are her social relationships? ## Mental Health Focus Experts recommend addressing her mental health and social connections to improve her overall well-being. > How is she handling this massive pandemic we’re all still navigating through? Is there any way you can support her self-care skills? ## Current Advice He is concerned about the immediate risks and wants to help her feel more important than the dangerous sexual practice. > Basically, how can you meet her where she is and help her feel good enough about life that it becomes more important than this one, deeply dangerous, sexual practice? ## Hospitalization Details She is hospitalized for a throat knife wound, with no permanent tracheal damage reported. > She said she doesn’t appear to have any permanent tracheal damage ## Risk Assessment The sexual practice she engages in could immediately kill her, raising serious safety concerns. > I really think she’s slipped off the edge into wanting a sort of sex that could actually and immediately kill her ## Ex's Current Role He is now a casual acquaintance and wants to help her avoid dangerous sexual practices. > I’m not much more than a casual acquaintance these days ## Mental Health Support Experts recommend addressing her mental health and social connections to improve her overall well-being. > How is she handling this massive pandemic we’re all still navigating through? Is there any way you can support her self-care skills? ## Current Advice He is concerned about the immediate risks and wants to help her feel more important than the dangerous sexual practice. > Basically, how can you meet her where she is and help her feel good enough about life that it becomes more important than this one, deeply dangerous, sexual practice? ## Hospitalization Status She is hospitalized for a throat knife wound with no permanent tracheal damage reported. > She said she doesn’t appear to have any permanent tracheal damage ## Ex's Concerns He worries about her extreme risks and wants to warn her about the dangerous sexual practice. > I’m not much more than a casual acquaintance these days, and I’m wondering what I could be doing to warn her about the extreme risks of her lifestyle ## Key takeaway A woman hospitalized with a throat knife wound after her ex tried to fulfill a dangerous BDSM fantasy involving simulated rape at knifepoint.