# The fast talker who won't let you answer

> Mentalist Fabien Olicard says a manipulator gives themselves away in the first seconds of a call.
- Title: The fast talker who won't let you answer · Psychologies
- Summary: Mentalist Fabien Olicard says a manipulator gives themselves away in the first seconds of a call. When someone floods you with words and urgency, stop the…
- Keywords: manipulation, psychology, conversation, boundaries, persuasion, fast, talker, won't, let, answer, Psychologies
- Source: Psychologies — https://psychologies.com/moi/moi-et-les-autres-moi/Fabien-Olicard-si-quelquun-vous-parle-regulierement-de-cette-maniere-vous-etes-peut-etre-face-a-une-tentative-de-manipulation-630230
- Author: Andréa Lepage
- Published: 2026-09-13T14:06:30+00:00
- Read time: 1 min
- Topics: manipulation, psychology, conversation, boundaries, persuasion
## That off feeling after a chat
You hang up and something is wrong, but you can't name it. Olicard says that feeling deserves attention, because some people speak with an intent that is not in your favour.

> Certaines conversations nous laissent un sentiment étrange
## Speed is the first tell
In an interview on the Légend podcast, the mentalist points to one early sign: a very fast delivery plus a pile of arguments, before you have said a single word.
## Your brain gets flooded
The effect has a name, cognitive saturation. Buried under information, you stop thinking clearly, your brain gives up, and you agree just to end it.
## The unpaid Saturday night
A man called Olicard to book him for a free Saturday party with fifty others, dangling vague future work. He hung up mid-pitch because he could feel himself about to say yes.

> Il m'enfume, je n'ai pas le temps d'en placer une
## Distance brings back clarity
Away from the verbal flood, Olicard looked at the offer again and it collapsed on its own. Free work, a crowd of rivals, a hypothetical payoff.
## The urgency is manufactured
Answer now or the chance disappears: that pressure is the trick, not the deadline. Go to the toilet, step outside, ask for a day. Nobody dies from a pause.

> Il n'y a pas mort d'homme
## Key takeaway

When someone floods you with words and urgency, stop the conversation and decide later. You are allowed to ask for time.