Why Calm People Aren't Always Calm

People who stay calm after injury may feel less pain than they seem.

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Why Calm People Aren't Always Calm

People who stay calm after injury may feel less pain than they seem.

In brief

People who stay calm after injury may feel less pain than they seem. People who suppress emotions to appear calm experience more physical stress than those who reframe their thoughts. Originally reported by Psychologies.

Calm Appearances Don't Mean Calmness

People who stay calm even when hurt are not necessarily as calm as they seem.

“Une personne calme en apparence face à une déception ne rime pas toujours avec absence de souffrance”

Psychologist James Gross's 2002 Study

James Gross's 2002 study at Stanford compared two emotional regulation strategies.

“Publiée en 2002, l'étude menée par le psychologue James Gross à Stanford reste l'une des démonstrations les plus citées sur ce sujet”

Two Emotional Strategies

Two Emotional Strategies

Cognitive reappraisal changes emotional experience while expressive suppression only blocks visible signs.

“la réévaluation cognitive (changer sa façon de penser une situation), la suppression expressive (bloquer les signes extérieurs de l'émotion)”

Expressive Suppression Causes More Stress

People using expressive suppression feel more physical stress and have worse memory retention.

“La suppression diminue l'expression comportementale, mais ne parvient pas à réduire l'expérience émotionnelle elle-même, et elle nuit en plus à la mémoire”

Surgical Video Test Shows Results

120 participants watched a surgical video clip to measure emotional responses.

“120 participants ont regardé un extrait de film chirurgical (une amputation)”

Long-Term Stress from Suppression

Repeated emotional suppression creates chronic internal tension and measurable physical stress.

“À long terme, cette suppression répétée entretient un état de tension interne chronique”

What it means

People who suppress emotions to appear calm experience more physical stress than those who reframe their thoughts.

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