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Why Couples Argue After Happy Moments
Psychologists explain why couples argue over trivial things after joyful moments.
In brief
Psychologists explain why couples argue over trivial things after joyful moments. Some couples argue over small issues after happy moments because they fear intense joy won't last. Originally reported by Psychologies.
Happy Moments Turn to Arguments
Some couples argue over trivial things right after joyful moments, psychologists say.
Aversion to Happiness Explained
Psychologists call this 'aversion to happiness' or fear of happiness, a reflex to protect joy from disappearing.
Why People Fear Happiness
People who fear happiness often had unhappy childhoods, perfectionism, or loneliness, according to research.
How Fear Affects Relationships
This fear makes couples argue to restore familiar balance, even if it feels uncomfortable.
The Real Reason for Arguments
Couples argue to find the 'small flaw' that restores normalcy, not to blame each other.
The one thing
Some couples argue over small issues after happy moments because they fear intense joy won't last.
