From Psychologies · Andréa Lepage · · 40s
Your Inner Dialogue Matters
Talking to yourself changes stress and anxiety.
In brief
Talking to yourself changes stress and anxiety. Using 'you' or your name instead of 'I' reduces stress during tough situations. Originally reported by Psychologies.
Quick answers
- What is inner dialogue?
- Most people talk to themselves in some way.
- What happens next?
- Using 'you' or name helps overcome anxiety in tough moments.
- What is the key takeaway from Your Inner Dialogue Matters?
- Using 'you' or your name instead of 'I' reduces stress during tough situations.
What is inner dialogue?
Most people talk to themselves in some way.
Inner dialogue helps decisions
It supports daily choices, doubts, and mental prep.
Stress study reveals key insight

A 2014 study found using 'you' or name reduces stress.
Why 'you' works better
People feel less anxious and less rumination after using 'you'.
Inner dialogue as a tool
It creates mental distance to handle stress better.
What happens next?
Using 'you' or name helps overcome anxiety in tough moments.
The bottom line
Using 'you' or your name instead of 'I' reduces stress during tough situations.





