My Wife Makes Six Times What I Make. I Plan to Change That By Training for a New Career, But There’s a Catch.

A man seeks career training to earn six times his wife's income but fears student debt.

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Oct 19, 2026

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My Wife Makes Six Times What I Make. I Plan to Change That By Training for a New Career, But There’s a Catch.

A man seeks career training to earn six times his wife's income but fears student debt.

In brief

A man seeks career training to earn six times his wife's income but fears student debt. A man plans to train as a psychiatric nurse practitioner to earn six times his wife's income but worries about student debt. Originally reported by Slate Magazine.

The problem

A man in a dead-end clerical job wants to change careers but worries about his wife's income and housing costs.

Three career options

A man looking thoughtfully at a laptop screen.

He considers training as a tugboat captain, therapist, or psychiatric nurse practitioner with varying salaries and debt levels.

Tugboat captain

This role earns $120,000 annually after two years of training with a stipend.

Therapist

Therapists earn $90,000-$100,000 after three-to-five years of unpaid training and supervision.

Psychiatric nurse practitioner

Psychiatric nurse practitioner

This role earns $130,000-$375,000 annually after four years of unpaid training with high student debt.

Wife's income

His wife makes six times what he earns but couldn't support him for four years.

Student debt concerns

Graduate loans are capped at $20,500 per year and $100,000 total, but student debt could be high.

Financial risks

He worries about borrowing more than he earns, potential burnout, and whether his wife can support him during training.

Solutions

He should use a spreadsheet to compare lost income, tuition, and job opportunities to decide which path is best.

Next steps

He should sit down with his wife and a spreadsheet to evaluate financial risks before buying a house.

What matters most

A man plans to train as a psychiatric nurse practitioner to earn six times his wife's income but worries about student debt.

Read the original on Slate Magazine

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