From Psychologies · Louise Leboyer · · 1m 30s
How to actually rest on weekends
A happiness researcher reveals why treating your weekend like a vacation makes you happier and more present.
In brief
A happiness researcher reveals why treating your weekend like a vacation makes you happier and more present. Adopt a vacation mindset on weekends by protecting Saturday for relaxation and moving chores to Sunday, which increases satisfaction and presence without taking extra time off. Originally reported by…
We're wasting our weekends
Most workers pile unfinished tasks into their weekends, turning them into a continuation of work rather than actual rest. This prevents our minds from truly recovering.
Weekends feel like work
Cassie Holmes, a happiness researcher, found that we treat weekends like scheduled workdays with chores to complete. This keeps our brains in work mode instead of rest mode.
“People associate vacations with a pause. Our weekends tend to be a routine where we chain activities together.”
The vacation mindset study

In 2017, Holmes studied over 400 American workers. Those who treated their weekend as a vacation showed more satisfaction, did less housework, and were more present during activities.
Protect Saturday for pleasure
Reserve Saturday for relaxation and enjoyable activities. Move chores to Sunday instead. This creates a clear break from routine and signals to your brain that you're on a break.
Micro-vacations work
You don't need to travel to feel vacation benefits. Simply reframing your weekend as a mini-vacation lets you experience vacation happiness without taking extra time off.
“When used wisely, this simple reframing lets you enjoy part of vacation happiness without taking additional time off.”
Rest is not weakness
Psychology professor Andrea Bonior emphasizes that taking breaks is physically, emotionally, and mentally necessary. Every pause from work deserves to be valued and protected.
“Taking time off is not a sign of weakness. We need it physically, emotionally and mentally.”
What matters most
Adopt a vacation mindset on weekends by protecting Saturday for relaxation and moving chores to Sunday, which increases satisfaction and presence without taking extra time off.




