Sex Advice: Monogamy Trial Fails

Gay man admits monogamy trial with boyfriend won't work after year.

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Oct 17, 2026

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Sex Advice: Monogamy Trial Fails

Gay man admits monogamy trial with boyfriend won't work after year.

In brief

Gay man admits monogamy trial with boyfriend won't work after year. Gay man says monogamy trial with boyfriend failed after year due to his need for multiple partners. Originally reported by Slate Magazine.

Monogamy trial starts

A gay man agreed to try monogamy with his boyfriend after almost a decade together.

Initial monogamy benefits

He enjoyed directing his sexual energy toward his boyfriend, who met him where he was.

Year-long struggle

After almost a year, he missed having sex with other guys and felt a strong urge to reconnect.

Boyfriend's expectations

His boyfriend wanted monogamy to be permanent and didn't want him to see other guys.

Past monogamy experience

He was monogamous with another guy for nearly a decade before this relationship.

Relationship struggle

He realized monogamy wasn't right for him after a year, but his boyfriend wanted it to last.

What happens next

He must decide whether to stay with his boyfriend or pursue his need for multiple partners.

In short

Gay man says monogamy trial with boyfriend failed after year due to his need for multiple partners.

Read the original on Slate Magazine

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