Nurse's financial situation

Jamie earns $85,000 annually after taxes, health insurance, and 401(k) contributions.

Ex's child support payment

Her ex pays $50 a month for two children, making $600 annually.

Rent and expenses

Jamie spends $2,300 monthly on rent for a two-bedroom apartment with two kids.

Ex's income

Her ex earns $120,000 to $130,000 annually.

Ramsey's advice

Dave Ramsey told Jamie to fight for fair child support rather than relocation.

“This guy ought to have his butt kicked up around his neck and wear it like a collar”

Support order vs relocation

A support order would pay $1,000 monthly versus relocation costs that could exceed $40,000.

401(k) impact

Stopping 4% 401(k) contributions releases $3,400 annually but costs $6,800 in retirement savings.

Recommended actions

File for support separately, get cost estimates, and check 401(k) match before moving.